It is not a secret with my blog name that I am a fan of wand toys. However the more frills you want, it often is that the more you end up paying. Or, while you do have those options you lose out on things like power. Really what I wanted to do was start to really find what was the best of the under $100 options there were when it came to wand toys. The Shibari Halo, however, caught…
In August of 2017, I was sitting on the couch. The house next door not yet torn down. To ignore the sounds of the creaking and the lingering smell of burnt wood. I was diving head first into the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit hashtag. Following workshops that my fellow bloggers were attending. Sharing quotes and drama with my housemates. I remember at one point someone saying ‘So you are going to go next year, right?‘. Even then, I wasn’t sure. Fast…
When I reach for a toy, I will always grab one that vibrates because it is my favorite for masturbation. Nine times out of ten it will be rechargeable. I love rechargeable toys because while they are sometimes a little more expensive it saves me from spending more on batteries. But when you look at my bedside table, I always have at least one smaller battery toy that hangs out among the rotation. Often the battery powered toy tends to…
When it comes to vibrators for clitoral stimulation, my collection is very simple. One could even go so far as to call it traditional. The simple shapes with the bullet top or perhaps that angled lipstick look. So when the Zumio came into my life, it was already different. The very small rounded tip made me think of the water pick in the bathroom right away. It had a slight bit of a charge when I unpacked it the first…
CW: Abuse, Abuse in a BDSM Dynamic It was about a month or so ago, I came down with the worst cough that lasted about two weeks. It left my neck swollen from agitation and lead to me having to remove my collar. A simple action, taken for the care of me. Left me with some emotions. Both of the new kind and remembering things from my past. That week I even tried to write about it, but the cold…
The first week into the theme of kink and BDSM has garnered a lot of fantastic posts. I took the chance to write about how sadism can be causal and light. Though as we get deeper into the challenge is seems that more writers have slipped out. But that is okay, I know I still look forward to there writing. Everyone misses a week now and then, life happens. There is still some great work to share this week! Towards a…
Dildos that aren’t your basic phallic shapes are not ones that I get to test often. I would say that I really only have a hand full of them. But the Screw You from Split Peaches is certainly not your basic shape. The shape is literally that of a screw that you would use to hold something together. While certainly, you can get it in a basic steel color. I was sent the rainbow one! I already knew their rainbow colors…
I sit next to Sir while we are hanging out with others in the same room. He on his phone and I on my laptop. A message pops up from him in WhatsApp from him. Sometimes it is something sweet or something super hot. Then there are the times it is something that causes me pain. His small casual sadism making me pout, while he gives me a bright grin. It is something that has been a part of our…
Week three is coming to an end, soon we move from talk of relationships to Kink/BDSM. I won’t lie, I am a little excited about this. I may have some writing saved for the upcoming theme. Now that has not stopped me from continuing to enjoy the posts from the other participants of Summer 100. Here is just a smattering of what caught my eye this week. Don’t forget to click the link at the bottom to be taken to…
Every night before I go to bed, I lay there with my eyes dozing on and off to the light of my phone. My fingers slipping over the screen as I write what comes to mind. I ramble on as I let the background thoughts flow into the chat box. Once those thoughts stop moving so quickly I know that I can finally rest. Sending off my good nights before finally attempting sleep. The person who gets those late night rambles…