Ink and Flesh: The Impulse

Ink and Flesh: The Impulse

One could describe me as impulsive. Even more so when it comes to my emotions and my feelings for people. It is something I try often to curb. Though a few times it has gotten the better of me one could say. Sometimes it is moving. Other times it is getting into a relationship. Though, there was this one time. It was a tattoo. I made the fabled choice of getting a tattoo, in the heat of the moment. A…

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Pleasure for All Bodies: Finding Sex Toys That Work For You

Pleasure for All Bodies: Finding Sex Toys That Work For You

In what seems like a sea of sex toys. It can often be hard finding ones that work when your not an able-bodied individual. When you are testing them it can be overwhelming and sometimes even disappointing. Not every toy is made for every body. Not every body can use ever toy. But there are things to look for in your toys. That can make them work easier for your body. Please note, this is just meant to be taken…

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Review: Deep Diver by Uberrime

Review: Deep Diver by Uberrime

There are some toys that you find that before you can get them are gone. This was me with the Whipspider Tentacle. A holy grail toy on my baby reviewer list long ago. When they left I was heartbroken, to be honest. No other tentacle seemed like it would do. Then Marco from Uberrime came along and made the Deep Diver. A tribute to a toy we thought lost to the annals of history. Deep Diver Taking the basic design…

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Review: Ruse Jimmy

Review: Ruse Jimmy

Sleek, sturdy, and cherry red. These are likely words you would expect me to use talking about a car. Not a dildo. But as I looked at the Ruse Jimmy by Blush as it stuck to my wall, it was all I could think about. Ruse Jimmy The Ruse Jimmy is from the Ruse line by Blush, most of them are much like this one. Coming in a standard red, black, or pink coloring. With a slightly realistic look. The…

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Review: Sixty from SXOhh

Review: Sixty from SXOhh

Please note, this toy has since been discontinued! But please enjoy this review! As someone who gets off normally through clitoral stimulation. I am always just a little intrigued by new toys in that category. To be honest, I have the toys that I use almost daily for that task. So when SXOhh contacted me to review their Sixty a new toy made in partnership with Nu Sensuelle. I was intrigued. Sixty Sixty as a toy on their site asks…

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Review: Phoenix Medium Exotic-Erotics

Review: Phoenix Medium Exotic-Erotics

The Phoenix from Exotic-Erotics is one of the few toys in my collection that is fantasy based. This one based off, of course, the majestic phoenix. The flaming bird that rises from the ashes once it is reborn in flame.  The Phoenix Now, this is not the first toy from Exotic-Erotics I have tried. I am rather fond of their werewolf toy. As for the Phoenix, I do adore it not only for the girth and length which is quite the…

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Polyam Journey: Our House

Polyam Journey: Our House

When I tell people that I live in a house with seven other people, their eyes normally get wide. “Seven? How do you make it work?” They ask. Even growing up there were six people between my parents, brother, and cousins who came to live with us. This is a chaos that I am no stranger to, and have found I actually thrive in. I remember when I would live with just one other person it was actually harder, not just…

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Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

Reclaiming Your Body And Heart After Surviving Abuse

I spent five years in abusive relationship. Even today, years after I finally left him, it’s a difficult thing to say out loud. But I do it anyway, because it needs to be said. I spent five years in an abusive relationship. It slowly and steadily grew worse. Taking an increasingly larger toll on my physical and emotional well-being, until I finally managed to escape.  It left me with scars from physical, mental and sexual abuse. The Aftermath After I…

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Review: The Chickie

Review: The Chickie

Emojibator is a company known for taking popular emojis and making them into toys. They had been known for things such as the Eggplant, Chili Pepper, and Banana vibrators. With the Chickie, they have branched out into their first USB rechargeable waterproof suction toy. The Chickie Breakdown The Chickie has 8 pulsation settings, but it also has 8 vibration setting, so it is almost like getting two kinds of toys in one. The pulsator is hidden under the head of…

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Finding Femme: Learning to Love My Femininity

Finding Femme: Learning to Love My Femininity

Growing up, I didn’t really have anyone who taught me how to be feminine. My peers growing up being taught by their mothers or older siblings. Whereas I picked up what I could scramble bits and pieces pulled from magazines, the theater, and popular culture. I often stayed away from clothes that clung to me too much. Remembering my mother shaming me for wearing anything that did not hide my size. Time in school was not a help in teaching…

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