It is not often that I review things outside of toys and accessories. So when I saw the Black Cake Zodiac Massage Candles on Shevibe. I decided to step outside my norm and try something new! Massage candles are a great way to set the mood and play with the senses. Not just with a partner but alone as well. The warm oils and wax heat up as the room fills with the fragrance. Once blown out it cools to…
Indulgent, elegant, and opulent. When you see a Zalo toy, their very aesthetic screams it. The Zalo Hero is no different. From the sleek curved serpentine design. To the small SWAROVSKI crystal that sits nestled in its curve. Their toys are pleasing to the eyes, but what I had to know was would it please me. Zalo Hero The Zalo Hero is a clitoral stimulating toy, in that it’s PulseWave technology as they say revolutionary. Specially designed to indulge and…
Hiring an Escort can be a slightly daunting task, especially if it is your first time. There are many sex workers and escort agencies in so many areas. That it can seem like you don’t really know where to start. These are 4 tips to take that may make your search easier. 1. Learn Your Escort Terms Terms like outcall, incall, GFE (Girlfriend Experience), and PSE (Porn Star Experience) are going to four terms that you will see everywhere. Outcall…
Once again, I was delighted when I was able to attend the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit like I did last year. While I felt that my first year was a whirlwind of activity, this year was a little more subdued. Having learned some lessons from my previous attendance. The first being rooming with another blogger. I was very lucky to have the company of Indigo, who runs the blog Indigo is an Adult. This year I was lucky to have…
Wand attachments are a great way to breath new life into your old wand. Or to let you use a wand between partners. Attachments slip over the head of most wands, though are often made with the Orignal Magic Wand in mind. Pleasure Works makes three Pop Tops all for under $25 dollars. The Rigged Black, Smooth Fuschia, and Nubby Purple. Shevibe carries all three, and I had a chance to review one of them. So I picked the Nubby…
App-controlled toys are still fairly new when it comes to the market that is sex tech. Though most are rather standard in letting you connect with another person. With Vibease they took it a step further. Not only can you use this toy with a partner through their app. You can also use the Vibease while listening to audiobooks that have set vibration controls during the audio. Vibease Toy The Vibease toy is rather small in size and bean-shaped with…
CW: Gaslighting, Abusive Phrases Every night, I write a sort of rambling journal to Sir in order to clear my head. A message right before saying goodnight to get things out. Thoughts I might have. Goals that I want to accomplish. Things that I am proud that I did that day. It is always different depending on my headspace. One night, in particular, I had a very deep bit of thought. One that I felt I needed to share. Because…
Sometimes a toy or accessory fits a need. In the case of the Inclusion Rainbow Harness, it goes towards a need. Activist Teacher makes each of their harnesses by hand. With the proceeds going towards LGBTQ education in rural Ontario. After the government announced last year they would be using outdated material from 1998. Which does not include gender identity or LGBTQ issues. The proceeds go towards Alex being able to travel to teach at universities. Most importantly educating both…
Tarot is something in my practice for some time. It has become my main source for my divination and daily practice. It was one of the first things I picked up when it came to myself and witchcraft. One of the first things I was taught was picking a signifier card. This is a card that represents you or what your question might pertain to. Over the years, I have found that I keep going back to certain cards for…
When looking over gags from Shevibe I recently picked out the Extreme O-Ring Gag to review. Gags are some of my favorite kink accessories. The idea of having the ability to clearly or even at all taken away. It is the one that always makes me squirm. Though I have only ever used ball gags or gags made out of cloth. So the chance to try a new gag is one that I never pass! Extreme O-Ring Gag This gag…