My last few years with gender have been, a rollercoaster of discovery when it comes to my pride as someone queer. It started with small steps before I came out as demigendered. I tested the waters with pronouns and how I felt. Finally settling happily with She/They for a lot of different reasons. I was lucky to have the safe spaces I did to test those waters. From there it was discovered that while I don’t identify as female, femme…
The one thing I often get asked when I mention living with seven other people. All of whom are either in a relationship or power dynamic either within or outside of our house. Is how do we keep track of everything? Not just the day today, but the who and what. Having covered the first, I wanted to cover the second! Because with that, brings spreadsheets! Yup! That is right we have a spreadsheet for this. Every six months (or…
One might say that I am a little late to the party with this review. There are many a blogger who already sings the praises of the Magic Wand Rechargeable. While up until now, I had held one in my hands for a few moments. I knew I needed to experience it. To know how it worked for me and my body. If I enjoyed it over the Original Magic Wand which has been my tried and true for years…
The perfect sex toy shop. It is something I think many people have thought about. I know I certainly have. Having visited a number of shops, both big chains, and small boutiques alike in my life. It has given me an idea of what I would look for in a sex toy shop. Though that doesn’t stop me from thinking about what would make a perfect sex shop! Not just my own ideas but a lot of them are echoed…
“Honestly, how can Mistress Tom deFun appreciate a good book when her sub can’t even keep her stockings sorted? When she spots a hole in Blair’s stockings… well, that’s not the only hole Blair has, and soon DeFun’s fingers are fucking the trussed-up tart. Blair can’t even maintain proper diction while getting stroked off with a vibrator up her butt… how disgraceful! Then again… Mistress deFun’s punishment seems worth the crime to me.” – Keymaster A thing to note about…
Note: This review is based off the old model of the Helios. My Helios arrived shortly after I started the process of getting a major tattoo cover-up on my dominant arm started. Which honestly does make using a dildo somewhat hard. So it sat, waiting for me. I waited patiently to use it. And yet, it seems time continued to try to thwart being able to test it. From sprains to my writs and having to work myself up to…
Betty’s Toy Box has recently opened a new site called Naughty Betty’s! At Naughty Betty’s they focus on BDSM and other kink gear. So I was excited when they reached out to see if I wanted to review some things from the new site. Seeing some of the new Saffron Collection from Sportsheets on the list. I really wanted to know just how the vegan leather felt and held up! Saffron Breathable Ball Gag The Saffron Breathable Ball Gag is…
When it comes to my craft, sexuality and masturbation are always mixed in with them. I have written about how important a connection my pleasure and spirituality are. One of the times I bring them together is during the full moon. A time when there is a lot of power to put towards intentions. With this post, it is my hope to help you be able to put together your own rituals. That will revolve around using sex and pleasure…
As someone who has sensitive nipples, I love a good pair of clamps. Not only do they just turn up my sensitivity but they can be extremely sexy looking as well. Because my nipples are fairly large I tend to stick to the more alligator kind of clamp. Or even just a simple pair of clothespins. So the idea of the Magi-points Magnetic Nipple Clamps when I saw them on Naughty Betty‘s intrigued me. Magi-points Magnetic Nipple Clamps The Magi-point…
The last few weeks have been a bit stressful, the world has been just a lot. Being at home was unexpected and led to having rest I wasn’t expecting. Leaving me to be in my head a lot. Thinking about myself, the past, and just the stuff I tend to tuck away because I have so much going on. Without the rush of my trying to balance my busy life. I have taken the time to check in with the…