If you have been reading this blog for a while, you know that wand vibrators are some of my all-time favorite sex toys. I would say that 80% of the time, I reach for a wand when I am looking to have an amazing orgasm. They are a versatile toy that is very often useable for every body shape and type. Over the years of blogging and reviewing sex toys, I have come to enjoy many different wands. But only…
2021 was a rough year for me as far as blogging went. While I finished over 25+ reviews, I only wrote three articles outside of that. But beyond blogging, I was also going through a lot. From starting a new in-person job, a couple of breakups that I had no planning for, and getting my mental health under control. I was busy, so it is not surprising that my writing took a little bit of a back seat. This year,…
It has been a few months since I wrote anything that was not a review. I am sure at least a few of my readers have noticed. But I have been focused on self-care you see. The new year brought a lot of big and hard things to my life. The big one being the break of my long-term power dynamic. Combined with everything else that was dragging me down, I took a huge blow to my emotional and mental…
One of my favorite things about being in this community is getting to read other bloggers’ work. From new to old, I am subscribed to pretty much every other sex blogger that I have been able to find. This year I will say the number of queer and LGBTQ+ bloggers that I follow skyrocketed. While I adore, so many bloggers and you can see a lot of them over on my blogroll. These are the ones that stood out to…
While 2020 has been a year, I got some great writing done this season. So just like in 2019, I have gathered the ones that really stood out to me. The ones that I think people shouldn’t have missed. And the ones that I was the proudest of. Favorite Review One of my earlier reviews in the year, but it also was a review that I had on the back burner for a long time. But my Helios has been…
CW: Transphobia, Mentions of Deadnaming All tweets shown here have been approved by their author. Save for Kinkly who likely wouldn’t respond as you will read why below. In the last few weeks, I went from being excited for being named one of not only Kinkly’s 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes but also one of the top LGBTQIA+ bloggers as well. Kinkly has in the past claimed that the list was an inclusive space for sex-positivity. But then it came out…
Almost two years ago, I was interviewed by Poly Role Models after getting to meet Kevin Patterson at my first Woodhull. Having been a follower of these interviews with others in the Polyamory community, I was honored to be on the list. It was through this interview, that I found my superpower when it comes to polyamorous relationships. One of the questions that gave me pause to think, was ‘What aspect of polyamory do you excel at?‘. My personal answer…
It is about this time of year that I would normally be writing about my conference experiences. But with the pandemic keeping us from gathering, they were all canceled in person. But I was lucky enough to attend the Sex Down South conference for the first time virtually. This year’s theme was focused on Sexuality and Spirituality, so my pull to go was strong. Not only did I learn a lot from the workshops that I attended, both during the…
To be very honest, I have had the Njoy Pure Wand in my toy collection for almost 10 years now. Splurging on myself for my birthday/holiday gift. And by splurge, I mean using all the points I had saved up on a certain site many sex toy bloggers used long ago. For me as a baby blogger, this was a pinnacle luxury toy to obtain. I remember taking it from the box, looking down at it as it sat couched…
Over the years I have been asked, why do I write sex toy reviews? There are so many things out there. Sex toy reviews are very niche compared to other categories because of the taboo. There are those that find it very frivolous or even undeeded. It is a sex toy? Why care what it can and cannot do? When in reality there are so many reasons why! One of my biggest reasons for this is a time when I…